Given the Moon's low gravity, you don't need a lot of thrust to make a soft landing, as the Chinese just demonstrated. Indeed, using enough thrust to create a huge crater is going to result in your ship streaking upwards at a rather fantastic rate of acceleration. The Apollo LEM's maintained this capability in case they needed to report, but physics dictated that they simply could not land while generating this sort of thrust, unless they were coming in upside down in a suicidal fashion.
So, you come in with fairly low thrust to a few meters above ground, cut your thrust, and let the ship settle.
Edit: Why would you be approaching at thousands of kilometers per hour? Hint: don't run your lunar transfer orbit to shoot you directly at the Moon, but angle it to insert you into lunar orbit (the CSM has to stay up there anyways, after all). You spend some thrust to kill orbital velocity (not directed downwards, but forwards). In terms of vertical speed, you ONLY have to counter the force of lunar gravity, so by the time you've rotated to an upright attitude and are descending vertically, very little thrust is required.
And even if you were coming in at thousands of miles per hour, why would you not kill that velocity at a higher altitude for safety's sake? You seem to be assuming that even in this case that there's some down to the last second burn manuever, which certainly sounds daring, but not the smartest approach to your bizarre alternate universe scenario.
Sorry. If you're doing a high thrust burn at the moment of touch-down on a low-G body, you are doing something VERY strange.